How to think of love

Do I think of love as disposatory then? That all depends. In a way, it is not disposing, it is already "there". In another way it is disposative, towards union, while it already is a kind of union. You can consider disposative before love or love as disposative towards real union which however doesn't make complete sense because it is the love which remains at the heart of union and not just causally making way for it.